Monthly Archives: January 2013

“Men are motivated and empowered …”

rickynlucy“Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.”

-John Gray Phd

I guess that is the problem with strong women, men don’t feel needed. Strong, smart women can take care of every thing. They fix the car, do their own taxes, use power tools, make websites, and pretty much everything else including clean the house do the laundry and dishes.

However,  don’t men realize that they are really still needed?
They are the only ones who can make women feel cherished!

“…subdue the enemy without fighting.”

stonesoilders“The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.”
― Sun Tzu from “The Art of War”
Reminds me of Lao Tse  from the “Tao de Ching”,
 “Do nothing and nothing remains undone”
I love this concept. We can be victorious without fighting, we do not need to rush out and DO something. All we have to do disable the enemy. And how do we do that? Most times it is as simple as refusing to engage.